My oldest child turning 9 was a pretty big deal in this house.
This meant that I had officially been a mom for just about 10 years. (Pregnancy counts… just ask any mom!)
This meant that I had made 10 years of parenting mistakes on my precious first born.
This meant that I had given more hugs and snuggles and messy face kisses that I ever knew possible.
This meant that I technically should have lost the baby weight I gained with him by now. #whoops
It also meant that this amazing little boy was taking big giant leaps towards becoming a man.
And that while I wanted to hold him close to me and sob into his Mine Craft t-shirt and make him promise never to love any other woman but me…
I didn’t.
I let him choose what he wanted to wear.
I let him pick the flavor of cake. (This white cake– he doesn’t like chocolate!)
I let him have friends over and even stayed in the kitchen as they played.
I didn’t let them see the tears as his friends sang him “Happy Birthday” enthusiastically.
And I will pray earnestly that he finds a good, kind woman who has a heart for Jesus and crazy Mother-in-Laws.
But, because I am weak and love my little boy so completely, I had to write it out on his cake.
I used a #3 open round tip with my favorite buttercream recipe.
I practiced on a piece of wax paper first with the different fonts I wanted to use and what I wanted to say. Well, I actually just started writing and didn’t plan exactly what it should say… but generally it has to say I LOVE YOU.
Writing on the side of a cake is not as easy as on the top, so I recommend starting there. I started at an outter edge and then spiraled in, moving towards the center. Because I didn’t plan out what I was saying I ran out of space, but then just filled it in with a heart.
For the sides of the cake, I recommend starting at the top edge. If you can grab an old oatmeal container or round Tupperware to practice on, do it. It’s a good idea to get comfortable with where your hand will rest and how you will hold the piping bag.
I did tone-on-tone which is one of my favorite looks, but you could certainly make the words ombre or even your child’s favorite color.
You can also do this in all one font, which would be much easier for the first time!
I wasn’t able to photograph a slice of the inside until late that night. This was the LAST piece left! Just moments later I let the birthday boy indulge for one last birthday treat. 🙂
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Here is a video where I wrote on a cake. The writing starts at about 16:00min.
This is probably the coolest cake ever! I’m so in love with it! Happy Birthday to your son!! HUGS!
I couldn’t love this cake more. I think this whole letting them grow up is pretty much the hardest thing EVER. I’m in denial and think they should just stay with us and be our babies forever. That’s probably not right either…
My youngest son is named Colton and he turned 19 this year. Time goes by way too fast. Happy Birthday Colton! Your mom made you a fabulous cake!
Being a mom is the greatest honor I’ve ever known! And teaching my girlies about Jesus is the most important part of my life!!!! I love making cakes for their birthdays. It makes me happy. What a beautiful cake!
This is such a fun cake! Happy birthday to your young man!
Your cake is gorgeous! After reading your post comments about your desires for your son as he enters manhood I want to share a book with you. It is called Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father’s Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood by Robert Lewis. Our pastor recommended it and we used it with our son who is now 29 and married. Blessings, Patty
Seriously, you are the BEST mom. I ordered a cake for Reece this year- lol! Why do you not live closer to me again??? Also, it’s technically 15 years before the baby weight should be lost. So, you’ve got time.
I love everything about this cake! The letters make it look so elegant. I probably don’t have a steady enough hand to write letters as beautiful as these.
What a fabulous cake. You are so talented! Happy birthday to your son!! Mine turned the big 10 recently. That was HUGE. I can’t wait to see the cake you make next year. : )
I absolutely love this!! Such nice, clean work. I love the white-on-white, too. HBD to your son and cheers to 10 years of parenting! (yes, pregnancy counts too, hehe).